I am easily piqued when a person doesn't mince the word that comes out of his mouth. For me we should be wary of other people's feeling. If it gonna hurt them why can't we be more respectful choosing the appropriate words rather than hurting them or maligning them personally?...
It doesn't matter what you say...
It is how you say it...!
For those kind of person, you won't earn a bit of my respect!