Hear Yeah! Hear Yeah!

I just asked for a link and now here I am so inspired to write because she inspires me a lot! Always. I am in a way have [also] been handicapped [excuse the word, pag in pain lang naman Tack....hehehe] by my scoliosis' excruciating pain attack but compared to Kat, well it shamed me to even complain a bit for this simple [huh?, oh my...!] agony. I believe God veered me into blogging to let our paths meet at a crossroads, to be able to form a [true] friendship out of two mere strangers. I still can vividly remember our first meeting at Tiendesitas. Whoah, a rare chance. I didn't plan it but it came and now, if one thing I'm really thankful about blogosphere...it's when I gain real friends. One is Katrina Yarza. The ever woohoo girl. She's really godsent, because she always make me feel lighter, when in fact it should be otherwise. She's really decided to hang in despite her illness. And with that perseverance I don't think I can equal her superb spirit that is now being spread not only via websites but on broadsheet and tv programs as well. I am so proud of how she took everything in stride, rather than be totally frustrated knocking her head [up] against the brick wall. Some might just feel empty and knock around and keep to themselves and become anti-social. But not Tack. She's really amazing I tell you. One must get to know her so as to imbibe her positivity and kakikayan. [of course ever bida rin si Madge sa mga serbisyo niya as a mom diba Kat? kaming mga alipin...sa gigilid, lol] She will always have a soft spot in my heart because in a way she has changed my life's view positively then on. I am more positive now, even more than more...like what she always say..."masarap mabuhay, tikman mo!"

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Kcat finds life’s beauty beyond pain

PS/***I have promised to give her a white Hello Kitty [ ahe...] for her birthday [ahe again, anoong petsa na ito???] but it's like a long row to hoe. So tila nakakahiya naman masyado if I let this month end without sending her that stuff. So... ***

Not an issue...and never will ever be...!

Saw Ida's comment this morning and natawa ako kasi profound daw. Thanks!:) And she's right, being alone is never an issue and never will be as long as we're happy with some other people who in one way or another bring colors and happiness into our lives. Ako, I always make the most of what I have in hand rather than what I do not have. If there were two people I admired most...sina Tack yon and Ida. And Madge, why not. They are models of true faith and unfazed courage. And to that...I bow.

I don't feel off about not having a Valentine to go out with and cuddle up back at home. I just put in mind that you cannot have both of everything. Lucky are those who enjoy such privil...err, blessings. To me, I'm at edge pa nga kasi I am right now healed 'coz naka-move on na ako. And I feel at ease and contented with what I am right now. Acceptance lang yon. Truthfully now, I can't identify the right man, the one who'll keep it working all the way from the moment he says "I love you"...na mukhang mahirap ng hanapin at my age. Puro bola bola na lang yan kung meron or kung magpapabola pa...but glad to say am not interested for another relationship. And that's not my cup of tea. Lalo na ngayon na we're in a very difficult situation. Alone? It's not a problem...it's more of a choice. I've learned to accept and deal with that panging feeling of lonliness, and it is completely up to us. For my money, I think it's most better to just keep myself at bay and stay away from entertaining such thought after a broken marriage...lest I'd just end up to a dirty dog. Touché!

I am a believer in JC, that if and whenever I feel lonely I know I am not alone because God is always with us during our crucial time. I also use my alone time to self reflect...writing [I don't want to be misinterpreted as blabbing about a lot of other parts of my private lives, but hey I just want to impart] or reading or catching up on an old show or going for a walk. Best of all, use this time to possible think about all the people you wish you could be spending time with and call them up or write them a letter or even hang out with them once in a while. What I have in mind now is to see and make sure that my children will soon be all successful...and have a good and better lives in the offing.

Life still has a meaning...









If there is a future there is time for mending-
Time to see your troubles coming to an ending.

Life is never hopeless however great your sorrow-
If you're looking forward to a new tomorrow.

If there is time for wishing then there is time for hoping-
When through doubt and darkness you are blindly groping.

Though the heart be heavy and hurt you may be feeling-
If there is time for praying there is time for healing.

So if through your window there is a new day breaking-
Thank God for the promise, though mind and soul be aching,

If with harvest over there is grain enough for gleaning-
There is a new tomorrow and life still has meaning.

[--unknown author, Photo by Maki--]

Never to grow dull

I say I am lacking time to mingle with other people that confines me all to myself. And I know that's quite unhealthy. I nixed going out to socialize, I am stuck to my daily concerns leaving me no time to develop enthusiasm. Well, what can you expect but be nostalgic nga. But anyway I am trying diligently...to be able to practice eliminating all dull, dead, unhealthy thoughts so as to freshen up my mind. I am really starting to affirm positivity and enthusiastic behavior in daily basis...and that should be. Coz' as we think it, talk it, and live it...surely we'll have it. Well...I lack relaxation na rin siguro, and to keep my mind and spirit from getting tired, I always turn to music. Sa Japan ko lang nagawang magliwaliw to the max. Nabitin pa. Well...

After this previous mental turmoil caused by a difficult decision I made over...it's too sad and bad that I allowed myself into such psychological agitation...mentally exhausting talaga...with a lot of lachrymal reflex...lol...kapagod. Anyway that's all water under the bridge now...I just allow no sense of guilt na lang to take the luster of my spirit. Because for me, guilt is the greatest of all causes of ennui.

So let's give all we've got...to life!

Here goes...let's start the day right! These are two of my favorite uppers.

ON NE S'AIMERA PLUS JAMAIS, this French title means NEVER TO LOVE AGAIN...tells that there's no chance so they ended up the relationship...c'est fini,c'est fini qu'elle bien tout! je suis heureux!

JONETSU means passion...

It's a new day...

Let us welcome the days ahead with much enthusiasm and being hopeful and positive is a helpful tools to make it worthwhile...

Photo by Makki Japan 2007

Mental catharsis...

In our life we each find ourselves sometimes down in the valley and no matter how far we slide down...there'll be a time that we all wanted to climb up...if possibly even to the top. And with that troubles we are deep into, it is a matter of acceptance and to be able to learn from it. And the most important of all is never to keep that troubles to yourself. Go to your willing friend and pour it all out to her/him...choose the sympathetic one to begin with and tell all what worries you. This sort of mental catharsis can help you a lot. Explaining to another how you feel will help you obtain a perspective of yourself. Try to see yourself from the outside so you can see yourself objectively. You'll be able to see how you are exaggerating your misfortunes.It is not what you think of it but what to do with it upon your reactions to it primarily. What is important is your point of view. Then it will be a great feeling when we know that after that dilemma we learned a lesson from it. Practicality and a lot of common sense made us feel comfortable, more tolerant, more forgiving and understanding a lot more and easier...and that proves that we all have improved...we should profit out of that experience instead...and that, has always been the hall-mark of a truly sensible and intelligent person one can be.

Why some couples end up faltering...

Maki shared some insights about men after reading a book from Pease couple. And being a bookworm, I scurried to go and find it yesterday, but I felt a little disappointed when I went to the customer service of the book store and asked if they do have "WHY MEN DON'T LISTEN....and WHY WOMEN DON'T READ MAPS"! I just want to know more about why some couples end up being colder or much worst be in contempt. Want to know about the inner beings of men, why women know more about communication, gestures and skinship. Or if a faltering relationship can still be saved?
Yes! Nothing is too seriously hopeless if it is given a chance for a complete make over or patchings up. Sometimes you would ask, "What the hell is he reading for hours, he is ignoring my presence?!" We usually end up watching our husband's smoke. We felt unloved and in the end we tend to be cold...cold as ice. If only you will know the true inner beings of men, their nature and their actions, so as not to take everything against them. Little by little things will be back to remain in an even keel.

Faith Cure method...

A friend named Patrick, a Brit is ill of C. I admire his courage to go on...his positive will to live. His endless love for his children and his being a prayerful person. I do believe in the power of FAITH CURE.

I will always pray for you, pal!

And Keep the Faith....!!!