Kind words really don't cost much...

We all like all that is good and nice and pleasing to God...quite impossible because we're human. So better if we can't be a blessing to others, at least don't mess their lives either. For just a single negative words you blurt out can ruin one soul. I do believe that if you can't say something good, just close your mouth and keep quiet. But sometimes when one is pushing you against the wall then you have to make yourself be heard or he's gonna shove you all the more.

And it's quite understandable when you go >>hey hey, listen... <<