A couple of misfits...

What if you and your partner always has arguments over a couple of misfits? Being a couple doesn't necessarily mean that you jive along well in many aspects but it's very common to argue on some issues like who came late, who seldom text and of late replies. Even who will gonna wash the dishes...or even clean the sink. Simple matters but it really matter so much though. There should always be a give and take in any form of relationship. If there is, how would one gonna fail and be a washout? It should always be a two-way lane. It should be. How will it work conjucively for the other if it's gonna be a one-way lane course? Quite selfish di ba? Work it hand in hand and things will last forever...and if love is the common ground, I don't think one has to go astray. Love (always) binds...


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6/7/08 (8:23am)

The relationship that has no more feel...

While doing a little bloghopping, before going to work...I saw pikey's post that has got my attention. The relationship that has no more feel it says. What does it mean? Well sometimes or most of the time it do happen to me in the real sense. Loving a person should be reciprocal. If you love someone who doesn't even think of you will just be a pain in the a#@. So you might as well get out of that relationship....you're just wasting your time and effort. Letting go is quite hurtful, but in the long run you'll be able to save yourself from more hurtful situation. So....

Finally, my friend gave the mitten and she's now...off the hook!

I received some text msgs while I was blogging and slurping my coffee, earlier this morning. Mixed emo...happy to know that it has ended after 4 years...and at the same time a bit sad 'coz I knew how much she has loved the guy, I don't know why. But yes...that's great coz it's finally over with my friend and her...I don't know how would I call him, but anyway...there's a lot to celebrate. Everything now is all water under the bridge. I don't think it's a waste of time but at least she has learned something from that relationship. It was doomed right from the off I told her...but she never did listen. And she swore to me that she's now ready to take command of the situation. I know that it will all soon pass out of her mind...everything will be forgotten, I said. She's now turning into music, that's taking her mind off her past troubles. And I'm very happy she finally gave the mitten. I know that she's quite hurting...probably not to move on but to adjust now with the present situation...excruciating I guess...but in time she'll be ok.

She sometimes realized that there's no way her marriage could be turned around. Yet, again the only answer seemed to be in waiting for fate to intervene. She's older now and am sure more au fait with the ways of men...surely she'll learn now. She's old enough to winnow truth from lies, to know what's good and not. I hope too, that now she'll strain her mind and grope back into the depths of her memory and soon she'd ask what good it could do to remember? I feel sorry that I have a special knack for picking the very worst thing to ask at the very worst moment. I know she's still hurting but knowing how resilient she is...she'll bounce back in time.

Pardon me if I veer on adult talk...let's go PG now! OK, for many non-orgasmic women there is a desperate search for the key to unlock the doorway to sexual fulfillment, but definitely not my friend...coz she is not of that kind. More than physical love, she craves for spiritual bond---a soul to soul relationship and the meeting of the minds...of the same wavelength. So then love was developed...according to her, the guy wooed her or I should say for what?! She is a woman who has dared to cut off from her sexual life, yes she is married but her marriage was in disarray when she met the guy. She then allowed herself to celibate just to be faithful to the man she has learned to love. The man who made a promise to protect her, the man who said he'd never leave her...that he would stay forever...sigh

And for you my friend, here's my take...there's no time to sit around pondering the impossibilities of your situation. You need to find answers to save your own life.
The most I think is that you now keep your head above the water.

And...you don't have to keep a stiff upper lip for me...coz there's no virtue in false modesty...my friend! Good luck...

Women's world...

Every women has her beauty secrets to tell. Everybody wants to feel young and look pretty. I have yet to find a girl without a mirror in her bag...without a comb, without a lip gloss, or a lipstick either. Hahaha! I remember my professor in college sharing this beauty secret on how to get rid of whiteheads and blackheads alike. Using cotton, spread thinly...dampen it with raw egg whites and put it on the face but avoid the eyes and the nostrils, wait for several hours until it hardened like a mask...you can actually sleep with it. When it's done you can rip it. And you'll see those unwanted dirt on the mask itself. Until now I'm still doing it and I shared it with my nieces, now it's a routine na...they do it when they feel they have to.
One thing with shaving, it really gives you those argh...very painful using the tweezers, and also one using a string...one is with honey,but the most common type is with the razor that can surely irritate the skin. Sigh...ang hirap magpaganda...magastos na masakit pa. Lucky are those who was born beautiful without even trying to be one. She's just beautiful. But what's important is the innate beauty. One that can't be seen nor touched. It can only be felt. The character and the behavior of one person is what matters. One can feel beautiful if she wants to...what you feel and do will make you beautiful inside out. Maganda ka nga but your a nuisance...it'll be a negative factor and won't help you either.
Me, I don't go for looks. What matter to me most is the gray just above the shoulder. I go for the intelligence of a person. It's a must for me to have a sensible mind. It's a good point if you can carry a conversation well with all that matters to everything. What good it could give you if you don't know how to communicate well? Good and sensible conversation for me is the building block of every human relationship. I go for intelligence and not for beauty...one can always feel beautiful!