Monday, August 11, 2008

Every dog has its day...



I'd been worried sick because a friend of mine is in doldrums plagued with so much concerns about her life's dilemma episodes. She almost freaked out of fear, losing her job. I know she's been so good enough. Very diligent, articulate and strait-laced. But looking back, I was so afraid she would be in enough trouble for being so calm, a bit cold and impassive, inspite of her intellectual factor. I told her many times that what you know is important but how you deal with your colleagues is something that shouldn't be ignored. You have to take that into consideration...the conviviality athmosphere. But then, that is besides the point. I just don't know how insensitive some people are. The problem is the inevitable crab mentality of some people. Sometimes or rather most of the time, when somebody becomes a threat, someone will pull that person down to grab the chance. The opportunity to make a sure way to the top easily. Some people dare to cut corners to make it happen for his own advantage. I feel for her because she's so disheartened and downspirited nowadays, and I can't help but just send her messages that would help her lift her spirit up and appease her now that she's sunk in mire.

To you my friend, as I told you a day ago...it doesn't mean that when you are living in a garage, you are a car. If you try to mince this it would mean a lot of things. One is, in your present situation it doesn't mean that you are hopeless and sinking. Don't lose hope! Be positive. I know and I always say that every dog has his day. You are very talented and I am sure you'll go far. Just put in mind that positivity helps a lot. Be cheerful and enjoy life. Keeping a happy and bubbly disposition will play a great part. Be strong and keep the faith! Don't take it against me if I give you so much of those upbraids...I am a friend and for that...you are given a great privilege of our friendship thing...an honest criticisms. As a friend I have a knack of telling you your slipup. You won't be able to see and realize it unless you look in the mirror and see all these. And I am your mirror...because I care enough for you as a friend.

What matters are the people who so much care about us, and the values we dare to live and share...I will be always be here for you because I believe in your capacity and I look up to you as a person. That's why you are always in my prayers. Just hang on and keep the faith!

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