Monday, February 18, 2008

Shove it up your @*#*!

I feel so awfully irritated with someone who's so cocky and you know what. For me I go for a natural friendly type of a person and I don't care if you are rich or poor, basta we jibe along well and respect is there too that's it. Any relationship for me should be two-way lane. Besides trusting each other, there should be give and take alongside with respecting each one's priorities and or opinions. As I always say, it should not be a selfish course and should be built on mutual appreciation. Both of them should feel loved and needed. And respected. A reciprocal way of treatment is necessary in order to achieve a good and lasting relationship. I hate selfish kind of a person who is well opinionated and who dabbles so much with self-esteem.

Or sometimes when we want to be with friends and family, often we want it to be on our terms. If anybody approaches relationships this way...no one will be ever happy, to tell you the truth. Instead of thinking only about what you want, think about what the others want too, and consider why it is important to spend time together. Accept that there are always differences between people and that if you are flexible you will enjoy time with them more and feel closer too at the same time.

Be careful and avoid offending others otherwise the backlash can be quite severe...think twice before you open your mouth and kindly spell the word GRATITUDE in caps. Sometimes I put modesty aside and show my whetted tongue when needed. Just be a positive listener sometimes, anyway who needs your rotten two-cents worth...think about that?

It's far better to be flexible enough to sacrifice what's personally ideal to have something acceptable, than to sacrifice the acceptable to have nothing.

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