Pseudo-friend?! Always in need...& one indeed!

If a certain person has been helping you everytime you're in deep water, that's true friendship being involved. But when you always take advantage of the generosity of that person that's something already. Another (same) thing's happening again that this person has already been a pain in the as# lately. Pag may kailangan she has all the reason to be felt...but when you've already bailed her out...naku nawawala na...ni ha ni ho di mo na maramdaman ang presence niya. How do we call that? Then out of the blue lulutang na naman at hihingi ng tulong...sometimes nakakasawa din eh. Lalo't she doesn't know anything about gratitude. And capitalizing on friendship is the worse thing here. She always say that friends don't leave each other...now am really pissed off with her bad character...so worse of being a friend per se...she really is annoying na. A fair-weather friend? I just don't know how to call that. What I know is that we are playing roles. She is always the friend in need and I am always the friend indeed. When I read Paulo Coelho's By The River Piedra I Sat Down and Wept it says something about playing roles...

My favorite part...just read!
"Don't be frightened, Pilar. Don't just fall into playing a role."
I didn't want my problem with the old man to become a problem with him, so I
tried to stay calm. "I don't know what you mean by 'playing a role.'"
"Some people always have to be doing battle with someone, sometimes even with
themselves, battling with their own lives. So they begin to create a kind of
play in their head, and they write the script based on their frustrations."
"I know a lot of people like that. I know just what you mean."
"But the worst part is that they cannot present the play by themselves," he
continued. "So they begin to invite other actors to join in.
"That's what that fellow outside was doing. He wanted revenge for something, and
he chose us to play a part. If we had accepted his restrictions, we'd be
regretting it. We would have been defeated. We would have agreed to participate
in his miserable life and in his frustrations.
"The man's aggression was easy to see, so it was easy for us to refuse the role
he wanted us to play. But other people also 'invite' us to behave like victims,
when they complain about the unfairness of life, for example, and ask us to
agree, to offer advice, to participate."

"Be careful. When you join in that game, you always wind up losing."