Sad plight...

Why am I still wide awake at this ungodly hour? Well because a dear friend of mine called me over the phone and crying a river...wow bespren umaga na po. But what about...well it is in her own accord to diclosed her inner secrets to me between sobs...she honestly relate the saddest part of her life. According to her, it started 5 years ago, when she met this man...a stranger that he was to her...all started in text messaging...a friendship that bloomed to an illicit love affair. Illicit because the girl here, who happened to be a friend of mine...is very much married altho she and her hubs have splitted up due to some differences. Now going back...she told me in a hush hush that the guy when they first met already have had loaned from her to finance a business. But everybody knows naman what's next di ba? Ano pa nga ba...eh di naglaho daw yung pera. Then after that continued loans followed...and mind you how much is the over-all total now...a whopping P100,000.00! Wow that's a lot of money. I don't know how and what happened to this friend of mind who I've known as such an intelligent and witty woman that she is, be hoodwinked just like that. May she be on the right track when she told me that she really love the guy. Now the next story is this...when the guy finally decided to get married, and junked my friend and saying he wanted to be a good father. Wonder of wonders why this friend of mine still as bobo as she is (sorry friendship, yan talaga ang tawag dyan eh) gave another chance to that guy na naman when he needed financial help again to bail him out of that credit card issue, mind you ng kanyang asawa ha. Ayun pinahiram daw dahil makukulong yung guy. Then when his daughter daw got sick he loaned again. Giving him so much of the care he needed. I told her, bobo ka talaga...napaka-obvious na tila may nagaganap ng kakaiba eh. Ji-nunk ka na nga patuloy ka pa rin na umaasang mamahalin ka niya...magising ka na nga!
Eto ngayon, sa sama ng loob ng friend ko, pilit niyang sinisingil ang lalake ng mga nahiram niyang money. Aba eh malaki laking halaga kaya yon. But in fairness naman nakapaghulog naman daw yung guy ng 4x and konti na lang at matatapos na yung sa credit card. Pero malaki laki pa yung balanse niya ha...mga P80,000 pa yun. Now,if you were to ask, ano gagawin ninyo?
Well...we have something in common din. Kasi me ganyan din akong kwento pero di naman ako kasing bobo ng kaibigan ko noh? Pero ako mas matapang magpa-barangay. Mas madali pang pag-uspan dahil may lupon na namamagitan. Ewan ko may balak na daw yung kaibigan kong move dahil nag-consult na siya sa lawyer at ang first move ay ang pagpapadala ng demand letter. Ang hindi ko alam ay kung mahal pa rin ng friend ko yung guy...or ire-phrase natin ang tanong...minahal ba naman nung guy na yun ang aking bobong kaibigan. Bobo kasi ang puso niya ang pinairal...

Poor soul...